Dating one guy at a time

But equally, keeping your options open is about being non-commital and this is the mainstay of being emotionally unavailable and creating limited experiences that keep you ‘safe’ in a self-fulfilling prophecy bubble. Feeling like you have choices may convince you that you have more choices than you have and trap you indecision! Follow the advice below It’s difficult to address this concern without stepping into the controversy of still-existing different societally acceptable behaviors for each gender.

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Yes, even in this time of supposed greater equality between the sexes, men are still not judged as negatively by the amount of sexual partners they’ve had as women are, and men who date more than one woman at the same time are judged less harshly than women who simultaneously date more than one partner.

Internet dating can equalize that to some extent with its capacity for anonymity of past entanglements, qualitatively different than the exposure when dating someone who comes vetted by trusted others.

But there is an obvious double-standard here and double-standards are bull - I make my own rules. Men don't tell all of their business so why should we?

Also, just because you are dating more than one man, does it automatically mean you are having sex with all of them? I am not promoting hoeing, just seeing what options there are.

Couldn’t you ‘experiment’ with one person for a few dates, see how it goes, and then move on? Do the people who you are dating know that you’re potentially wasting their time? As people no matter what they tell you, don’t always date for the same reasons, dating someone and getting to know them will let you determine through their actions and interactions (not just words and your imagination) whether you are two people on the same page with similar primary values.

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