Dating a man going through a separation
Without going into very personal details, he was pretty darn certain about this decision and only wanted any debate to be who was getting what and how to do it as quickly as possible so that we could go our ways.We had no children at that time, but I was crushed, shocked, and despondent all the same.
After I got over my shock and anger, I was floored, not only at his behavior, which came out of left field, but how sharp a contrast this was to how we used to be. All we needed was for him to just change his mind with this ridiculous break up.
Sure, we’d had our issues, but once upon a time, we were in perfect sync and truly happy, and nothing like the situation on our hands now. So, I panicked and went on a single handed — through threats, through begging, through desperate, (and now embarrassing) behavior.
By taking the time to feel sad, connect with others, and feed your own joy, you will cope effectively with your separation.
So your partner has said ‘I love you but’, has been having an affair or you’ve been arguing so much it’s been affecting the kids.
While Funke Akindele was trying to achieve a quiet separation and eventual divorce with little or no public coverage, hubby Oloyede took to social media to broadcast the break-up.