Borderline personality disorder and online dating
It's the pain of being told I was too needy even as could never get the help I needed.” ― Kiera Van Gelder, “I’m not interested in Bob Marley telling me to ‘lively up’ myself.
The only music that satisfies me is Nine Inch Nails and Trent Reznor’s voice crying through industrial rhytms.
Creating a plan on how to deal with the behaviors ensures that you are not feeding the symptoms of the disorder by ensuring you stay calm in the midst of an issue.
You will also be able to reinforce better, productive behaviors. They yell, threaten suicide (and are sometimes serious), accuse, blame, and are highly defensive.
My lifelong ability to be assertive had turned into a constant state of passivity.” ― Rachel Reiland, “The Queen is controlling, the Witch is sadistic, the Hermit is fearful, and the Waif is helpless. Don't let the Queen get the upper hand; be wary even of accepting gifts because it engenders expectations.